How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?
My honest, initial reaction would probably be one of shock. But I don't think it would effect me or the relationship any more than finding out she had been with another guy before we were married. That's all in the past. What my hypothetical wife and I have now is the present and future. Whatever either of us did in the past shouldn't matter as long as we're committed to each other now.
*Question of the Week comes from The Book of Questions by Gregory Stock, Ph.D.